Bridal nerves - 'Do I look good?' or 'is my hair style complementing my  features?' are not just last minute palpitations, they can be quite  stressful and cause anxious moments. So telling you not to worry would  be futile. I would rather say, make your worries work for you. What you  could probably do for a start is – back up ammunition.
For starters I would recommend the 'CTMP Regimen'. That would be the cleansing, toning, moisturizing and protection routine.
With  pollution on the rise, it is only natural that our skin gets a sallow  look and is prone to clogged pores and acne. Not to forget the  blackheads and also excessively dry or oily skin.  So, daily cleansing  is mandatory. It helps to remove the dirt and grime of every day busy  life. Once this is done, the pores are opened up allowing the skin to  breathe.
If you have oily skin, it is prudent to use an  astringent to remove the excess oil from the skin. A toner for normal to  dry skin will help to even out the pores. All types of skin need  moisturizing, even oily ones. Moisturizing rejuvenates the skin and  keeps it fresh, preventing dryness to settle in. An oily skin can use a  gel/water based moisturizer to keep that dewy look without getting the  excessive shine as a result of over active sebaceous glands.
Using  a moisturizing lotion on damp skin helps absorb the conditioner faster.  Also, it is important to use a separate moisturizing lotion for body  and face, since the skin texture is different.
The last part is 'protection', often neglected but vital to maintain a healthy complexion.
The  sun beats mercilessly on our skin and a protective sunblock helps to  prevent the sunburn that can be caused due to constant exposure to the  harmful rays of the sun. It is imperative that a minimum SPF30 be used  for the sun block to be truly effective. Anything less would not serve  the purpose.
Never attempt anything on the face just before the  wedding. Even a facial has to be done at least two weeks in advance to  avoid breaking into rashes or pimples.
Cardinal Rule One: What goes for the face goes for the neck too, after all neck is an extension of the face.
So  please do not neglect the neck while doing the CTMP regimen. In fact,  neck shows the sign of ageing first and you must pamper and nurture it  with great care as you would do the face.
The hands and legs come  next. They are the much abused parts of the body. Constant washing of  hands can cause dryness. Some people are prone to excessively dry hands.  You get exclusive hand creams with intense moisturizing effect for  those who have extreme dryness. Dry hands can cause brittle nails and  also can be 'social gaffe' especially when one has to shake hands. Also,  by moisturizing you get supple hands and the skin's elasticity is  maintained.
Cardinal Rule Two: A manicure helps to keep our hands supple and clean, at the same time prevents our nails being chipped. Over all it looks a pretty picture when your hands are well kept.
The  same goes for the feet too. Besides bearing our weight, the feet  undergo wear and tear when exposed to the pollution from the ground.  This is why you would notice that most often the feet look ragged and  worn out (just like our foot wear)! One way to combat this is to soak  the feet in warm water with a few drops of oil and a little salt for ten  minutes before going to bed. Following which you pat it dry (not  rubbing them) and apply a special foot cream to prevent cracked heels.
Cracks  in heels are more a result of constant pressure of weight on the skin.  Picture this like a tomato being squashed with a hand and what do you  get – crack in the tomato skin. Our feet are undergoing a similar trial.  So, a leave-in foot cream would help retain the moisture and prevent  dryness, thereby reducing the probability of cracks appearing on the  skin.
Cardinal Rule Three: Pedicure helps to remove the dry skin and also in growth in nails.  It also helps to keep the nails trim and prevent cracks. The foot  massage helps in improving the blood circulation and gives an overall  feeling of well being.
While we are through with the upper and lower part of the body, we have this huge yawning gap in the middle called torso.
A  back massage will help to alleviate the strain and stress that we often  put on our unsuspecting shoulders, thanks to endless hours spent in  front of the computer. The bunch of muscles threaded together at the top  corner of your shoulder can actually make you wince with pain. A  massage will de-stress your corded muscles leaving in you a state of  bliss – a kind of floating feeling where there are no limbs.
Besides, a massage can tone the flabby skin and make it firm while improving blood circulation and make you skin glow.
Cardinal  Rule Four: An 'abhyang' (whole body) massage helps to completely  de-stress and tone up the body. It also helps keep the skin firm.
A traditional oil bath from head to toe should be a once a week compulsory ritual for the general well being of the body.
Besides conditioning, it is good for relaxing the mind, body and spirit.
Finally  the crowning glory – the Shiras (head). The hair, like the rest of the  body takes it toll due to the climate and pollution. It can become  brittle and dry and result in chronic hair fall if left untreated.
We  often punish our hair unwittingly by frequently using straightening  irons, curlers and dryers which can cause drying and result in dandruff.  A simple oil massage and leaving it in for twenty minutes before  washing it off with a mild shampoo could do the trick. But, if the hair  has been subjected to frequent coloring and highlighting – the chemicals  can dehydrate the hair follicle causing it serum loss. Also, with  dryness comes itching and flaking. In such cases intense conditioning  would be needed to repair the damage. Also, applying a hair masque will  help lock moisture into the hair roots making it soft and manageable.
It  is advisable to experiment with different brands of shampoos before  zeroing on the one that would suit your hair. It is a must to apply a  conditioner after shampooing.
Cardinal Rule Five: Never experiment with hair styling just before the d-day. Use the brand that you are comfortable with. It wouldn't do good to try out something at the last moment that can jeopardize the texture and quality of your hair. 
Relax,  take a deep breath and calm down. It is your wedding and it is up to  you to decide how you want to look best. These are just pointers to  guide you through the beauty regimentation. After all, no bride would  want to be seen with blotches on her skin. At the same time, the moon  still looks good despite its blemish. Therefore, rest assured no matter  what, you will still be the best looking girl on your wedding.
Why should you go for a professional?
Well  for starters, the deed is done for a fee and hence the accountability  is more. More importantly, they know their job. These professionals know  to address the problem and treat them accordingly.
Spa is all about  being pampered and getting the much deserved break from stress. As the  bride to be you deserve it. So go for it, treat yourself to some  'spa-licous' wonder and see the difference. In a spa, they aim to give  total 'primping and pruning', buffing and polishing to give an overall  sheen and glow to the body.
Sheela Sreenivasan of Bubbles Spa, Chennai, says, “There is a specific treatment for each requirement.”
Most  Spas have a range of services from aromatherapy facials to AHA peels  (for skin lightening) to chocolate therapy to oxygen masks. Depending on  your skin's needs, the methodology is suggested. Then there is foot  reflexology like the Thai or Chinese treatments which address the nerves  of the feet. By addressing the nerves of the feet which are connected  to the whole nervous system, there is total body rejuvenation.
Dr.  Balambal of Ayush Therapy Centre, Besant Nagar, says, “Ideally any  treatment should happen for two to three weeks to see results. More so  in the case of Ayurvedic treatments.” She also adds that most brides  come for treatments of premature graying of hair, skin lightening and  cellulite reduction.
Since the Ayurvedic treatment is about  balancing the humors of the body – like vata, pitta, kapha etc. and the  skin is the seventh layer of the body, “it will take minimum seven days  for detoxification of the body and only then the nourishment begins.”  explains the ayurveda doctor, Balambal. Besides, the doctor also  recommends that the abhyangam (body massage ritual) should be followed  at home diligently to maximize results.
For scar removal, Ayush  has a treatment – where navarai (red rice) is boiled in a kashaym  (medicine decoction) and made into a pudding and applied on the face as a  mask. Besides, a bottle of saffron oil is also given for application in  the night. Dr. Bala elaborates, “Since each sitting is only for twenty  minutes we insist that the client should come for minimum a week for the  results to show.”
Skin lightening is another popular treatment  at the centre. Dr. Bala describes, “The navarai is made into a scrub and  applied to the face to help remove the tan. We also do pizhichal to  improve the skin luster and also udhvartanam to remove skin flabbiness.”
Another  treatment is that for cellulite reduction wherein a podi khizhi (powder  mixture tied in a cloth) and dipped in medicated oil is applied to the  affected part in upward movement (since the cellulite is beneath the  hair follicle and hence needs to be rubbed in the opposite direction)  and then a steam bath for detoxification is recommended. Besides, there  is a diet regimen which is also prescribed to be followed at home.
Most of the treatments cost Rs.1200/- onwards per session.
When  asked about when the bride should start her beauty regimen, Dr. Bala  suggested, “For optimum results it should be two to three weeks prior to  the event if visible results are expected. Also, during treatment  schedule the person has to restrict from going outdoors in the sun.”
Kaya  Skin clinic offers a whole range of packages exclusively formulated by  the in-house dermatologists. These are custom made to suit the  individual skin types.  
Dr. Snehal Sriram, Medical Advisor, Kaya  Skin Clinic recommends, “Ideally brides should start their beauty and  skin care regiment at least two months prior to the wedding date.” She  adds, “Our exclusive bridal package spans over two months and there will  be a gap of 7 to 10 days per session to tone and condition the skin.” 
Special Bridal Packages in Kaya include – 
Private consultation with the dermatologist to customize skin-care plan.
Kaya Glow - To remove dead cells and re-hydrate and moisturize the skin.
Kaya  Back Shine - Cleanse the stubborn dust, grime and sun-tan remnants as  well as remove traces of acne scars and pigmentation for a soft and  smooth skin.
Kaya Face Rejuvenator- For a quick, effective way to refresh and revitalize the face. 
Besides there are two most sought services from Kaya which are inclusive of the bridal package: 
Kaya  Skin Lightening –Kaya Skin Lightening which includes skin exfoliation  and quick regeneration of skin by using 5 specially derived skin  whitening agents to give a radiant, glowing and visibly lighter skin in  just 30 days
Kaya Hair Free- The Kaya Permanent Hair Reduction-  (Laser Epilating) treatment is the ideal way to get rid of unwanted hair  FOREVER! This method prevents the hair regeneration process and renders  ineffective the ability of hair follicles to produce new hair. 
Dr.  Sriram reiterates that each one has to take care of their skin by  understanding what suits them and plan accordingly to avail the most of  the treatment.
Finally just a word – go indulge and enjoy. Splurge!  After all it is supposed to be the most joyous moment of your life –  your wedding day.
-Sandya Dev
Source : blog.bharatmatrimony.com